Add support for max_version, dl_device, copy kwargs in __dlpack__ to match Array API #20198 
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Towards #20200
cf. data-apis/array-api#741, data-apis/array-api#602, https://data-apis.org/array-api/latest/API_specification/generated/array_api.array.__dlpack__.html
Note
"In principle, arbitrary cross-device copies could be allowed too, but the consensus in data-apis/array-api#626 was that limiting to device-to-host copies is enough for now". This PR includes the optional device-to-device transfer.
Default behavior is preserved when
max_version=None, dl_device=None, copy=None,This PR also adds new versioning information to
jax/_src/dlpack.py: