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Vida Khoshpey
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๐Ÿคท๐Ÿปโ€โ™€๏ธ Freelance Devs Drop Your Realest Truth Here

(No flexing. No motivational BS. Just the raw reality people actually need.)๐Ÿ˜

If youโ€™ve ever made even $1 from coding outside a 9โ€“5โ€ฆ

this thread is your mic. ๐ŸŽค๐Ÿ”ฅ

Silent juniors who think theyโ€™re the only impostors

are reading every word you write. ๐Ÿ‘€๐Ÿ’ญ๐Ÿ˜‚

Reply using this exact template (copy โ†’ fill โ†’ send):

๐Ÿ’ฐ Platforms that paid me: โ†’ (Upwork, Fiverr, Toptal, Arc, Lemon.io, Contra, Twitter/X DMs, cold email, referrals, friend of a friend, etc.) ๐Ÿ˜ถโ€๐ŸŒซ๏ธ Imposter syndrome in 2025: โ†’ Still hits daily โ†’ Only when I raise rates or meet a new client โ†’ Sometimes, usually late at night โ†’ Rarely now โ†’ Never had it (respect ๐Ÿซก) ๐Ÿ”ฅ One sentence I wish someone told me when I was terrified to send my first proposal: โ†’ โ€œYour real sentence here โ€” keep it raw.โ€ 
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๐Ÿ’ฌ Now fill in your details

Copy โ†’ paste โ†’ answer honestly โ†“

๐Ÿ’ฐ Platforms that paid me:

โ†’ (Upwork, Fiverr, Toptal, Arc, Lemon.io, Contra, Twitter/X DMs, cold email, referrals, friend-of-a-friend, etc.)

๐Ÿ˜ถโ€๐ŸŒซ๏ธ Imposter syndrome in 2025:

โ†’ Still hits daily

โ†’ Only when I raise my rates or meet a new client

โ†’ Sometimes, usually late at night

โ†’ Rarely these days

โ†’ Never had it (respect ๐Ÿซก)

๐Ÿ”ฅ One sentence I wish someone told me before sending my first proposal:

โ†’ โ€œYour real sentence here โ€” keep it raw.โ€

Real examples (copy the vibe, not the words):

Platforms โ†’ Fiverr + one repeat client from Reddit Imposter โ†’ Daily, especially when they call me โ€œexpertโ€ Truth โ†’ โ€œI started at $15/hr while following YouTube tutorials with the client on call.โ€ 
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 ๐Ÿ’ฐ Platforms โ†’ Upwork โ†’ Arc โ†’ now mostly direct ๐Ÿ˜ถโ€๐ŸŒซ๏ธ Imposter โ†’ Only before sending $8k+ invoices ๐Ÿ”ฅ Truth โ†’ โ€œHalf my career is just being the only one who answers emails on weekends.โ€ 
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No sugarcoating.

Just truth.๐Ÿ’•

The dev whoโ€™s about to give up tonight will read your comment and think:

โ€œโ€ฆwait, even THEY feel like this?โ€๐Ÿ˜ญ

Copy the template.

Fill it honestly.

Hit reply.

And if you donโ€™t want to use the template, thatโ€™s totally fine ๐Ÿ˜‚just tell your story in your own words. Iโ€™m listening.
Sometimes I catch myself thinking โ€œthe competition is too bigโ€ฆ why me? will anyone even pay me?โ€๐Ÿ˜ž
So your honesty might help someone who feels the same.

Weโ€™re waiting for your line โ†“

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Love how real and supportive this thread is๐Ÿ‘Œ โ€” seriously appreciate you putting this out there. Your honesty makes the whole space feel a lot less intimidating, and it shows how much you genuinely care about helping beginners. Iโ€™m really inspired by the way you encourage people to share the truth instead of the polished version๐Ÿ‘. Definitely got me interested and feeling more confident just reading your words!
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