Maybe persons and families should stop using email services that refuse to deliver them the emails they want. If I personally use /dev/null as my inbox does it become your problem to ensure mail delivery?

I recommend that whenever you know someone cares about receiving an email much more than you care about them receiving it, just send it. They'll do what they have to, and this way we can weed bad providers out of the market. Some websites with email verified sign-up have a simple FAQ to let you know what's causing the problem.