I recently posted a question: Conics in the surface $x^4 + y^4 -2n^2z^4 = w^2$
An answer was provided. After studying the answer for some time, I realised that the answerer had misunderstood my question and the answer is not actually relevant to my question. I asked that the answer be removed since it gives the false impression that my question has been answered, or close to being answered, as the answer has upvotes. And I would not like this answer to distract from obtaining an actual answer to my question. I suspect whoever upvoted the answer didn't realise that it didn't address my question.
However the answerer refused to do so, as it seems since it is upvoted they would prefer to not lose the upvotes.
The situation is particularly awkward as the answerer is a site moderator (Stanley Yao Xiao), and whilst this does not break any site rules, I would think that moderators should demonstrate exemplary behaviour on the site and be willing to admit when they made a mistake. So I've taken the discussion to meta to see whether they would reconsider the decision, or another independent moderator to comment.