Support mixed externalname and local services in single route

[ciarams87]

Proposed changes

Problem: When routing to an ExternalName service alongside internal services in the same HTTPRoute, NGF incorrectly sets the Host header to the Gateway's hostname instead of the external service's hostname, causing requests to fail.

Solution: Properly set Host header based on ExternalName service hostname.

Testing: Local testing using the updated examples and unit testing

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Closes #4187

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Support mixed externalname and local services in single route. 

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Codecov Report

❌ Patch coverage is 89.65517% with 3 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.
✅ Project coverage is 86.03%. Comparing base (b41c973) to head (8e7b090).
⚠️ Report is 1 commits behind head on main.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
internal/controller/nginx/config/servers.go	78.57%	2 Missing and 1 partial ⚠️

Additional details and impacted files

@@ Coverage Diff @@ ## main #4188 +/- ## ========================================== - Coverage 86.04% 86.03% -0.01%  ========================================== Files 131 131 Lines 14093 14111 +18 Branches 35 35 ========================================== + Hits 12126 12141 +15  - Misses 1767 1769 +2  - Partials 200 201 +1 

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[bjee19]

nice