🐛 Print reason for launch template needing update, fix constant instance refreshes for AWSMachinePool by considering SSHKeyName nil and empty string the same

[AndiDog]

What type of PR is this?

/kind bug

What this PR does / why we need it:

The type spec in CAPA says

// SSHKeyName is the name of the ssh key to attach to the instance. Valid values are empty string // (do not use SSH keys), a valid SSH key name, or omitted (use the default SSH key name) // +optional SSHKeyName *string `json:"sshKeyName,omitempty"` 

but in launch template creation, CAPA treats "" and nil the same and there's no fallback to a default value. The two must compare equal or else we keep refreshing instances by mistake.

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• adds unit tests
• adds or updates e2e tests

Release note:

Print reason for launch template needing update, fix constant instance refreshes for AWSMachinePool 

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/test pull-cluster-api-provider-aws-e2e