chore!: use pure ES modules with cache-utils

[ehmicky]

Part of #3742

This switches cache-utils from CommonJS to pure ES modules.

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[ehmicky]

Test main files must be .mjs due to ava not working well in monorepos mixing CommonJS and ESM packages. Once all packages of this monorepos are switched to ESM, those files can be renamed to .js.